In Calypso Bloom's thoughts of the recent death of "poor Dignam" run in tandem
with reflections on the death ten years earlier of "poor
little Rudy." The loss of his infant son Rudolph only 11 days
after birth is more than a source of continuing grief to
Bloom. It is also the most significant factor in the sexual
dysfunction that is imperiling his marriage. His inability to
perform in bed seems to stem not only from a desire to avoid
the trauma of further loss, but also from a feeling that he
was somehow responsible for Rudy's failure to thrive.
In Calypso Bloom remembers that Mrs. Thornton "knew from
the first poor little Rudy wouldn't live. Well, God is good, sir. She knew at once. He would be
eleven now if he had lived." Ithaca supplies the
exact dates: "birth on 29 December 1893 of second (and only
male) issue, deceased 9 January 1894, aged 11 days." In the
"10 years, 5 months and 18 days" since Rudy's birth, "carnal
intercourse had been incomplete, without ejaculation of semen
within the natural female organ." Actually, the dry spell has
been slightly longer that that, the last "complete carnal
intercourse, with ejaculation of semen within the natural
female organ, having last taken place 5 weeks previous, viz.
27 November 1893."
Lestrygonians makes the connection between the loss
of a child and the loss of sexual happiness explicit: "I was
happier then. Or was that I? Or am I now I? Twentyeight I was.
She twentythree. When we left Lombard street west something
changed. Could never like it again after Rudy."
The omission of a subject from the verb phrase "Could never
like" raises the logical possibility that the lack of sexual
passion could be either the husband's or the wife's, but
characterizations of the sexual relationship elsewhere in the
novel leave no doubt that the problem is Bloom's. It is Molly
who is starved for "complete carnal intercourse." It is Bloom
who diverts his attention to her backside.
The appearance of a child's funeral cortège in Hades
prompts Bloom to recall some folk nonsense about infant
vitality: "A dwarf's face, mauve and wrinkled like little
Rudy's was. Dwarf's body, weak as putty, in a whitelined deal
box. Burial friendly society pays. Penny a week for a sod of
turf. Our. Little. Beggar. Baby. Meant nothing. Mistake of
nature. If it's healthy it's from the mother. If not
from the man. Better luck next time." This
poignant reflection may lead the reader into many thoughts
about Bloom's feelings of inadequacy.